Ep231: How to trust yourself (without imposter syndrome).
In this episode, Mei Phing discusses how to build real inner confidence at work by transitioning from hoping to knowing, emphasizing preparation and understanding to boost your inner confidence when dealing with any career, workplace or job search challenges.
Highlights
00:00 π Hoping vs. Knowing: Confidence stems from preparation and understanding rather than mere hope.
02:05 π Preparation is Key: Knowing what to expect and how to handle situations boosts confidence.
03:10 π€ Build Relationships: Actively network and set clear expectations with stakeholders to ease communication.
04:00 π― Job Search Strategy: Apply for jobs that align with your skills and prepare to articulate your value effectively.
05:40 π Confidence Is An Outcome: Focus on taking small actions to improve your skills and knowledge gradually.
08:40 π§ Trust Yourself: Real confidence comes from learning and knowing how to navigate challenges.
Key Insights
π Transition from Hope to Knowledge: Confidence grows when you shift from hoping for positive outcomes to knowing how to achieve them. This mindset reduces anxiety and increases clarity.
π Self-Reflection is Essential: Understanding your strengths and weaknesses helps you prepare better, leading to more confident interactions in the workplace.
π¬ Effective Communication: Clear articulation of your contributions and expectations fosters trust and rapport with colleagues and supervisors, enhancing your confidence.
π οΈ Skill Development: Actively seeking to improve your skills can transform perceived weaknesses into strengths, creating a more confident self-image.
β³ Manage Expectations: Knowing what to expect in various career situations can prevent panic and promote a calm, confident demeanor.
π Continuous Learning: Embrace knowledge-gathering as a way to navigate challenges effectively, allowing you to approach each situation with confidence.
π Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate progress, as small victories build a foundation for greater confidence over time.
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