Ep63: Do you say YES to every request at work?
In this episode, Mei Phing discusses a high-achieving client who struggled with imposter syndrome and focused too much on personal branding, leading to a lack of foundational skills and frustration. With guidance, he improved his soft skills and achieved success in his management trainee program.
Highlights
1:53 π° Client’s struggle with imposter syndrome and lack of visibility
3:35 π Importance of aligning expectations with reality in the corporate world
5:43 πΌ Client’s focus on personal branding and lack of foundational skills
8:10 π Consequences of not delivering and damaging professional reputation
9:50 π Success in the management trainee program and acceptance into top department
11:34 π Ongoing challenge of managing expectations and workload in the corporate world
Key Insights
π― Imposter syndrome and high achievers: Many top performers experience imposter syndrome and consistently feel like they should have done more, leading to frustration and self-doubt.
π‘ Expectation versus reality: Fresh graduates often have unrealistic expectations of the corporate world, and when faced with the reality, it can create self-doubt and frustration. Seeking guidance from experienced professionals can provide a more accurate perspective.
π± Focus on foundational skills: While personal branding is important, young professionals should prioritize improving industry knowledge, technical skills, and core soft skills to excel in their careers.
π Managing workload and expectations: Avoid the habit of constantly volunteering for new tasks and focus on aligning goals, giving regular updates, and learning how to handle disagreements and presentations.
π Leveraging top performer status: Top performers should learn to leverage their natural motivation, assertiveness, and dedication without letting it turn against them. Understanding boundaries and effective work management can lead to sustained success.
π Continuous growth and learning: Young professionals should seek ongoing guidance and training to navigate the challenges of the corporate world and ensure their career progression.
πͺ Overcoming challenges: With the right support and guidance, young professionals can overcome struggles, improve their skills, and achieve success in their careers. Persistence and a growth mindset are key.
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